20 Creepy Family Comments That Made People Feel Uneasy
Family gatherings can be a mixed bag—sometimes heartwarming, sometimes hilarious, and, let’s be honest, sometimes straight-up unsettling. When a Redditor asked, “What’s the creepiest thing a member of your family has ever said?”, the internet didn’t disappoint.
Here are a few of the most eyebrow-raising, spine-tingling responses people shared:
- The Dark Prophet: “My grandma once told me, completely deadpan, ‘You have your grandfather’s eyes. I hope you don’t get his fate.’ She never explained what she meant. Still haunts me.”
Umm, thanks for the generational trauma, Granny. - Sibling Shenanigans: “My little brother, at around age 5, told me, ‘I see you in my dreams, but sometimes your eyes are missing.’”
Nope. That’s straight out of a horror movie.
#1
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That is straight-up nightmare fuel. Your brother unintentionally (or maybe intentionally—kids can be low-key creepy like that) just took your recurring nightmare and cranked it up to 11.
The deadpan delivery of “They’re coming for you too”? That’s the stuff horror movies are made of. I bet even the aliens were like, “Nah, let’s skip this one. He’s already spooked enough.”
Did your brother ever remember saying that, or was it one of those eerie sleepwalking moments? Either way, I wouldn’t blame you if you started sleeping with the lights on after that one.
#2
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Yikes. That’s not just uncomfortable—it’s a whole new level of inappropriate. Comments like that, especially from a parent, can create a really awkward (and frankly concerning) atmosphere for everyone involved.
Did anyone call him out on it in the moment, or was it one of those situations where everyone just froze in disbelief? Because honestly, that’s the kind of comment that deserves a hard reality check.
#3
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That’s beyond unsettling—it’s incredibly inappropriate and crosses so many boundaries, even if it was framed as a “fond memory.” Trusting your instincts and cutting contact was absolutely the right move. No one should have to tolerate behavior that makes them feel uncomfortable or unsafe, especially from family.
I hope you’re surrounded by people who support you and respect your boundaries. That’s a tough situation, and you handled it with the clarity and strength it deserved.
#4
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That’s both hilarious and mildly terrifying—like raising a tiny supervillain in training! The fact that he hissed and delivered a line worthy of a thriller movie is next-level creepy (and weirdly impressive for a 3-year-old).
His reaction at 12 is priceless, too. Just casually accepting his past villainous tendencies like, “Yeah, that tracks.” You might want to keep an eye on him—just in case his secret lair starts construction in the basement. 😄
#5
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Yikes, that’s brutal. Nothing like good ol’ dad dropping a nuclear-grade embarrassment bomb right out of the gate. At 13, that’s the kind of moment that lives rent-free in your head for years.
Honestly, it’s no surprise you kept your future relationships under wraps after that—your dad basically speedran the “how to make your kid never bring someone home again” manual. At least by the time you were in your 20s, I hope he learned some conversational filters… or at least waited until after the introductions.
#6
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Oof, that’s a double whammy of hurt right there—body-shaming and pitting siblings against each other in one sentence? Impressive in the worst way possible.
It’s wild how some parents think comments like that are motivational when all they really do is stick with you forever (and not in the “aww, cherished memory” kind of way). I hope you and your sister both know that his idea of “perfect” was way off the mark. You’re both already more than enough as you are. 💪
#7
I’m really sorry you had to hear things like that—those are deeply cruel and manipulative words, and no one deserves to experience that kind of treatment, especially from people who are supposed to care for them.
If you ever want to talk about it or just need someone to listen without judgment, I’m here for you. And if you’re working through any of this now, I hope you have support around you—whether that’s friends, chosen family, or professional help. You’re stronger than anyone who tried to tear you down. 💙
#8
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That’s unbelievably inappropriate and disturbing—comments like that are not just gross but also completely unnecessary. It’s upsetting when people try to make jokes (if that’s even what they intended) that cross such clear boundaries, especially when it involves a child and loving parents. I hope you and your husband were able to brush it off without letting it taint what should’ve been a beautiful, joyful time with your daughter. Some people just don’t understand the weight of their words.
#9
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That’s incredibly unsettling and completely inappropriate, especially coming from a family member. No one should have to deal with that kind of discomfort, and it’s deeply wrong for someone to make such a comment—let alone give a gift like that. I hope you had support around you to handle that situation because no one deserves to be made to feel unsafe or uncomfortable, especially by someone who’s supposed to be family.
#10
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That’s incredibly hurtful and insensitive, especially coming from a parent. It sounds like she was either trying (and failing) to make light of a serious situation or just being shockingly thoughtless. Regardless, you didn’t deserve to hear something like that when you were already feeling vulnerable. I hope you have people in your life who offer real care and support—because that’s what truly matters.
#11
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That’s beyond unsettling, and I’m sorry you had to experience something so disturbing from someone who should have been a safe and supportive family member. You did exactly the right thing by cutting off contact and protecting yourself. No one deserves to feel uncomfortable or unsafe—especially from a relative. Setting firm boundaries in situations like that is crucial, and it sounds like you handled it with strength and clarity.
#12
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That must have been terrifying, especially while you were already going through such a difficult time. It sounds like your sister’s struggle with paranoid schizophrenia might have contributed to that unsettling moment, but your reaction was completely understandable. Prioritizing your safety was the right move, and I hope both you and your sister were able to get the support you needed after that. Mental health issues can be incredibly tough on everyone involved, especially when they manifest in such intense ways.
#13
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That’s unbelievably inappropriate and completely out of line—especially coming from a family member, let alone a grandparent. I can’t imagine how uncomfortable that must have made you feel. Some people seriously have no concept of boundaries or respect. You definitely didn’t deserve to be put in that situation.
#14
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That’s absolutely disgusting and beyond inappropriate. No one should ever speak about their child that way, let alone in front of someone else. You’re 100% right to keep your daughter away from him—there’s no excuse for that kind of behavior, and it’s a huge red flag. Boundaries like that are essential for protecting your family.
#15
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That’s both incredibly eerie and strangely comforting at the same time. Stories like that really make you wonder if kids are more connected to things we can’t see or explain. The fact that your son described your great-grandfather so accurately—right down to the cane and the clothes—without ever having seen a photo is just wild. It’s like he had a little visit from family history. Did anything else like that ever happen with your son?
#16
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That’s absolutely horrifying—no one should ever have to witness something like that, especially involving an innocent child. It’s incredibly brave of you to have stepped in to protect the baby, and even more so to walk away from such a toxic situation entirely. Cutting ties like that takes real strength. I hope you’ve found peace since then, and that the little one grew up surrounded by people who actually cared for him.
#17
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That’s incredibly inappropriate and unfair, especially toward someone so young. I’m sorry you had to experience that—no one should be made to feel responsible for other people’s thoughts or actions.
#18
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I’m so sorry you had to hear something so deeply insensitive during such a painful time. Grief is already overwhelming, and comments like that—whether meant to help or not—can cut even deeper. I hope you’ve found support from those who truly understand and respect your loss.
#19
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That’s a completely valid question—and honestly, one that too many families avoid asking. Protecting kids should always be the priority, and it’s shocking how often people brush things under the rug for the sake of “keeping the peace.” You did the right thing by questioning it as an adult, especially with kids of your own now.
#20
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You handled that situation exactly as you should have—calling out inappropriate comments, especially about a child, is crucial. It’s sad how often people try to pass off those remarks as “jokes” without realizing (or caring) how damaging they are. It’s good that you’re keeping boundaries in place for your kids’ safety, even if your father made some changes afterward. Trusting your instincts as a parent is always the right move.